@MrsChino - I've also considered looking into embryo donation and have briefly checked out that website but seems like there are a lot more people looking for embryos than people donating but it's certainly an option. I agree re the adoption thing - it looks so hard and just a whole new lot of heartache. But then part of me thinks maybe it makes more sense to adopt if we go down that road of non genetic children to avoid being pregnant! As in why put myself through pregnancy if I could adopt a ready made child. That sounds strange though when I say it like that, lol.
@mummymaybe - thanks for the reassurance re the Wazza cycle- it has been the hardest yet, that's for sure and im glad im not the only one that's had the 'can I face that again' thoughts. I'm not keen to take those dosages again next time though. I guess you were second time lucky so that's some solid inspiration!