I have a lot of thinking to do.
We had another argument last night and this morning. We mostly argue because he won't let me talk. It's highly frustrating. He flips his lid at the smallest things.
He says me and the kids treat him like sh1t.
He just kept saying "my house, my rules"
After a while he said he would back off from the discipline and see how I go ( thinks I won't cope).
Whoever said he was controlling, you're right. Even he knows this too.
I am in the middle of writing him a letter. He isn't at work today but he's getting new tyres so when he gets home we are going out and lll talk to him and get him to read his letter.
I get so angry at him when he won't listen. Basically it's his way or the highway.
I told him I want a calm, peaceful home. Not screaming matches everyday. I said if he isn't willing to change or at least try. And isn't willing to listen me and the kids will be living somewhere else. Whether that's permanently or a break from each other for a few weeks/months while we work things out from a distance I don't know. I told him ( though he knows) the kids have been through enough these past few years and I am working at bettering myself. I refuse to put up with crap anymore.
I'll let you know what happens once he reads the letter...