Yeah that's the thing they have been though a lot and I feel huge guilt. Me and two of the kids are in counceling.
I have brought up parenting classes and relationship counceling but he says "why should I do parenting classes the kids should just behave"
I feel as though because he does a lot for us he thinks he has a right to tell the kids off if that makes sense.
He sees I do get stressed sometimes and he says he is trying to help but I say it would help better if he backed off a bit ( or a lot), he expects me to take his side at all times, but it's hard for me.