An update.. Ended up taking DS to see the doctor, he's been so miserable 😔 he has a middle ear infection. So see how he goes, he's been given antibiotics for 7 days and if it's not improving we have to take him back after that. So hopefully it does and we can all get some sleep.
He's still barely eating but getting him to nibble on some stuff. So now we wait. He's missing day care today. Hopefully he can go next week.