So we are not trying for baby number 2 yet but we will at some point next year. I am having mixed feelings about it as our first baby was conceived through IVF and it was such a long drawn out process that in some ways i judt dont feel i have the energy to go through it all again. If we do the IVF thing again and it doesnt work, will i be sad forever? I dont really want to get back into a negative emotional state again if things dont go to plan... but equally if we dont try, will i regret it in the future??