Mrsthomo good luck!!
Mrsthomo good luck!!
@RubyGirl & @jeb8303
Oh man family...
Love them but I find it really hard to share the IVF journey with them... there is so much expectation, and then let down... I stopped telling my family about my FET's it was just so much easier... Mum doesn't cope with my miscarriages and failures well, and i feel a bit of it on me... We recently told them about our last EPU because I got so sick and hospitalised last time, but man it was difficult telling them last week the fresh transfer failed... I just don't want any more questions?! I feel so guilty feeling this way... but its exhausting.
So i got a call today from Genetics... my PGD results are in... wasn't expecting its only been a little over 2weeks. 1 was abnormal double chromosome 5 & 12.. the 2nd was normal...
Lots of tears... I think relief but also just letting go ... i think I've been holding on a little since Friday's BFN.. So we have 1... I'm going to contact my FN tomorrow start chatting about FET even though i can't get into LB til friggin 21 Oct. Discuss the use of intrapllids as an option... We're also considering maybe doing another EPU instead of FET... its hard to know what to do.. with medicare changes coming up and the end of year and safety net reboot.... $$ is a bit of an issue
But then I dont want to do an EPU because what if that lone frosty is the one?
So hard.. hate these decisions
We both have one frostie and they could be the ones - whatever you choose to do will be the right choice but even if you do another EPU he will there waiting for you
And let's hold out hope that the Medicare changes don't go through.... They haven't passed the legislation yet so it may not....
But what it will mean for most of us is one cycle per calendar year we can claim back and any further cycles are out of pocket....
Welcome @corzjayne & @mrsthomo
Corzjayne, sorry to hear about your chemical and the incorrect use of medication, I hope all goes well with the next cycle. I can totally understand why you would be scared they might make a mistake again. Hopefully they will be more on top of your meds the time.
Mrsthomo I can only imagine what you have been through. Life can be so sh*t sometimes. I don't know anyone who is doing IVF either. I really appreciate the support from the lovely ladies here. I really hope everything works out for you this cycle.
@Tanej78 can you do another EPU with your seconds child in mind?? My son is only 10 months and i cant wait for my second, so maybe do another EPU incase the FET fails or for your second child because once you have one you'll want another lol. @mrsthomo I'm on the progynova tablets 2x 3 times a day, i started yesterday CD1.
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