@Bris1977 I had OHSS the first stim cycle, bad enough to put me in ICU and then on a general ward for 7 days, so that was a freeze all cycle, three months later we did FET which resulted in my daughter. I put us firmly in the super lucky category but I've actually found these failed cycles much more difficult than the first two. 100% worse. I've done another 2 stim cycles, the second of which I got OHSS again but no where near as badly. I got PG on that cycle and ended up having a DnC at 9 weeks as the placenta was growing but the baby wasn't. I've just got one more emby from the three we got from that cycle left, then I'm done for many reasons. I feel like if I keep pursuing another baby, I'll be missing out on watching the one I have grow up because I find the whole thing so consuming. That's not fair on her, me or DH. Its emotionally and physically destroying and there's only so much of that I can tolerate before it's simply too much.