Not showering and not washing my hair - mum told me that too but I shut that down very quickly. I told her if she can't accept those two things then it won't work. She accepted that but insisted not going out unless I go to see the doctor or medical appointment. I'm not allowed to go out shopping etc. I said that's fine. She would have to do that for me.
The longan and date drink - yuck. I don't like it either. She wants me to drink it and she knows I don't like sweet drinks so she said let's compromise later.
What do you mean no vegie?
If you aren't doing confinement and she knows it, why all the rules? I'm doing it. I don't want to but mum insisted and I don't have the heart or energy to fight with her.