I always wanted 3-4. Dh 2-3.
We have 3. I know I am done ... but I do think about what it would be like to have a 4th. I struggle with pregnancy, each one has gotten worse, i was on bedrest for the last 3 months with number 3. So my body couldnt handle a 4th. I dont think hubby could handle a 4th.
And the practical side of things - finances, car etc....
Dd2 has made ourfamily feel complete. I no longer feel like anyone is missing. DH is getting the snip, I told him he needs to go sooner rather than later so there is no possibility of a number 4.
The true test will come for me when dd2 turns 1, as we have started preparing / ttc at that age. I wouldnt, and haven't, considered freezing my eggs.... I do want to donate them though.