Firstly, congratulations to you and your family. I just wanted to respond to your question about reduction. I think every single one of those babies growing inside you, is a very precious miracle and blessing. I truly believe they have been sent to you and your husband for a reason, so my answer to your question is - nurture and treasure them and leave it in the hands of God (I'm not a religious nut, just a mum who has lost a child at age five and a half, and who has to believe that she's in a beautiful happy place and is being looked after and loved until her daddy and I can hold her again).
Since our daughter's death three years ago, I have seen a medium and I'm firmly of the opinion that the time when we leave this earth, is all pre-determined and planned out, for whatever reason. I honestly believe that these five little babies have been sent to you for a really special reason. I know that having five babies will surely turn your whole world upside down, but please hold onto each of them and let them enrich your lives. From the very depths of my heart, I wish you a trouble free pregnancy, and five healthy and happy babies in your arms in the months to come. I look forward to following your journey.