Welcome @greenlady sorry that your results came back abnormal. I only did the one round of pgd and all of my embies came back abnormal. I did 4 atom cycles to get 9 embies though, as I just didn't produce a lot of eggs. A couple were a grade looking, but on testing abnormal, it just goes to show, they can look good and be bad, so the opposite might hold true - they can look bad/ok but ultimately be good.
@leyshoja aspirin thins the blood and clexane stops it clotting so do different things. The reason immune dr's put you on clexane is to help the blood flow through the placenta to bub, as nk/immune issues can affect the placenta.
Yes there is a risk if you cut yourself. It is only something you can decide whether you are comfortable taking it. I bleed everyday with my progesterone in oil injection, but it stops quickly. I know that's just a pin prick compared to a cut though. I just make sure I pay attention when cutting things!
In regards to intralipids, dr m says to do 7-14 days before transfer, on bfp then every 4 weeks till 14 weeks. I'm doing them more regularly due to my bt results.
As you aren't consulting with a reproductive immunogist and your fs doesn't believe in it, it's such a hard time for you trying to work out what to do. Go with your gut, that is the only thing I can suggest. That and ask yourself if you would have any what ifs, if it doesn't work will you say what if I had done this, done that? If I think I will say that then I always go with the treatment suggested. But that is me, and I was super tired of doing all the stims and getting nowhere.
Good luck with your decisions xxx