The 'bad sleepers can't be changed' people expect VP to not be so black and white and to stop quoting a 'stat' - you're all saying hey VP you are - WRONG! Can't you just get rid of your stat, it's cr*p and upsets people. So standard from those people = hey "change your views" so that struggling mums don't get upset.
Yet when VP sticks to her guns or someone agrees that yes a vast majority of children can be sleep trained into good children she wants someone to change their views and say you know what maybe your bad sleeper can be sleep trained, she is asking of those others in the thread to change their views so her standard = hey "change your views" so that struggling mums who want to change their sleep believe they can not just throw their hands up and accept a bad sleeper if they're crinically sleep deprived.
So in summary, both sides are asking the other side to change their views but apparently the only ones who are allowed to do so is those in the first goop if people = double standard.
Yep I agree holly the double standard IS plucking hilarious!