Honestly ladies, intention is often interpreted by the reader, not implied by the poster. Go back and read the responses before you jumped in to start a debate, not once does anyone say that people who sleep train are bad or wrong, we all just share our stories of non-sleepers, why we think it's ok and that sleep trainers (i.e. 'experts') cause US anxiety, not you. US.
VP, I get that the 'stay out of the thread' comment made you think a fight was a brewing, but Sonja explained herself after your first post and you kept going. This is not about being blinded or being in a clique. This is about some just enjoying that there was a thread to embrace your non-sleeper rather than trying to fix it, the intention was repeated several times throughout the thread.