Does anyone find that their baby does one thing for them & something else for everyone else?
My 1 year old does & its super frustrating & I dont know what to do about it
Like he eats solids perfectly for daycare, other family members & my husband. He will not eat solids at all for me, it goes straight on the floor or the spoon gets pushed away - this means he doesn't have dinner 5 days a week & generally doesnt have breakfast or lunch either on two days a week (i do offer every single time) & im getting concerned about his solids intake.
And he wont go to sleep as well for me as he does for everyone else either. This is regular, but as an example last night he woke for a breastfeed & then when I put him back to bed he would not go to sleep. Cosleeping is not an option but i laid on a mattress on the floor in his room & tried cuddles, white noise, music, light projector machine, shushing, patting, singing & rocking - he screamed for over an hour. Husband then walked in & said he would take over - ds stopped screaming & went to sleep in less than 5 minutes. I could have cried, after dealing with that at 3am.
Does anyone know why this is happening or what to do about it? Its making my pnd worse - I feel like a failure or that my son hates me