Let me finish that sentence (must have sat on the iPad while changing nappy).
...non-sleeping baby first time. This one doesn't cry and is a much better sleeper. I really feel sorry for everyone that gets the more difficult baby second. At least I didn't know any better first time. Must make it really difficult with a toddler as well.
I have kept ds in childcare 2 days a week and he goes to my parents 1 day a week. So I only have both of them on 2 weekdays and I struggle maintaining a cool mental state on those days 😕 Ds has decided to drop his afternoon nap now too but I can still convince him to stay in his room and play coz mummy and baby still need their nap!
I use an ergo carrier for going outside but find it hard to do house work, cooking etc with it inside. I have a wrap too so might try and use it as a sling inside.