Ok I just need to vent to cool down. Dp is out on his weekly bike ride and I'm home with 3 kids. Trying to clean up rumpus and found mould and feeling overwhelmed and irritated. Oh here comes clingy bub. I don't resent Dp having his time but weekends are so short with rugby, swimming and his bike riding. We never get to the house stuff so it's left to me but I'm so fecking busy with 13 month old who's into everything. The need to cool down is that the new mould is in the lego corner that is never tidied up so area never ventilated / cleaned but I'm the lone voice in trying to encourage kids to tidy up when I mention it to dp he's like oh it's good to spread out lego, he'll never be tidy etc etc. this mould will be blamed on me not opening windows despite fact doing so means going down stairs with bub, unravelling safety thing from cord with bub on leg trying to grab then remembering to leave time to reverse when we go out or house isn't secure and with all the cold weather need heat not cold air! Just feeing overwhelmed.