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    I've just read this whole thread. I find what your DH did deeply disturbing.

    I just wanted to offer my support along with everyone else here. Continue to take action like you are, it's not ok to be treated like this. You're worth so much more x

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    I am sorry you have to deal with this. I just wanted to add you can be seperated in the same house. My Mother moved out while I was in year 10 and due to financial circumstances moved back in when I was in year 12 until we sold the house a year later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    No we don't have a house. We moved here 8 yrs ago into the family home. We have no assets. This is my FIL home that my H will inherit one day..
    sorry I'm confused. your husband works, controls all the finances and you say you have no assets. is he stashing his wages away from you and leaving you with nothing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    sorry I'm confused. your husband works, controls all the finances and you say you have no assets. is he stashing his wages away from you and leaving you with nothing?
    We live pay to pay. I don't have access to the credit card he has that.
    When I say assets I mean we don't have a house . I pay my car loan off via my Ftb pay but that ends once DD finishes school at the end of nov and then he has said I need to get a job to pay it

    We are sleeping in separate rooms now

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    Quote Originally Posted by FrothyFrog View Post
    I am sorry you have to deal with this. I just wanted to add you can be seperated in the same house. My Mother moved out while I was in year 10 and due to financial circumstances moved back in when I was in year 12 until we sold the house a year later.
    Oh ok thanks. I'll have to see what Centrelink says

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyla View Post
    I've just read this whole thread. I find what your DH did deeply disturbing.

    I just wanted to offer my support along with everyone else here. Continue to take action like you are, it's not ok to be treated like this. You're worth so much more x
    Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    We live pay to pay. I don't have access to the credit card he has that.
    When I say assets I mean we don't have a house . I pay my car loan off via my Ftb pay but that ends once DD finishes school at the end of nov and then he has said I need to get a job to pay it

    We are sleeping in separate rooms now
    don't mean to scare you but I hope he's not running up debts that you're both liable for.

    how did he take the sleeping in separate rooms thing?

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    Oh @Louise41 I am so sorry. Your DH sounds like a total pratt. You owe him nothing, you deserve to be free and happy. I hope that you are able to get yourself into a safe situation soon x

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    I can't find my marriage certificate...
    Do I need his signature to apply for a new one?

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    have you looked at the births deaths & marriages website in your state?


 

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