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    I have no where to go. I can't disrupt my dd right now . She is so academic and wants to do so well. I need to suck it up and stuck it out for a few more months

    I'm just so angry

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    I would take it as a sign that my relationship was well and truly over and I would make plans to leave.

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    Default Wwyd

    can you kick him out then?

    I'm afraid that, as PPs have pointed out, things are escalating. what will he do next to belittle you? will it be hot oil he pours down your shirt? pushes you down the stairs?

    if he abuses you, and you take it, it will escalate. you're sending him the message that what he's doing is ok.

    I also get that you're wanting to not disrupt your dd but think about the message you're sending her. she can see what's going on, you're teaching her that it's ok for a woman to be abused. you'll do her more favors by kicking this disgusting **** to the curb than by hanging on and being angry and hurt underneath.
    Last edited by turquoisecoast; 23-07-2015 at 19:56.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Party of Three View Post
    I would take it as a sign that my relationship was well and truly over and I would make plans to leave.
    Exactly this!!

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    I would leave while he was at work or I would remove his belongings to the front lawn.
    I get that you don't want to disrupt your DD but isn't staying doing her more harm?

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    I'm moving into the spare room tonight

    I'm ending my marriage

    I hate him

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    I'm moving into the spare room tonight

    I'm ending my marriage

    I hate him

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    Thank you to everyone who commented

    I am still crying and so hurt but I'll be ok

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    Thank you to everyone who commented

    I am still crying and so hurt but I'll be ok
    big hugs to you xx

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    Oh Louise41. I am so sorry he did that. What an absolute ****. I know you want things to be stable for your dd but you need to be safe too! Thinking of you xx


 

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