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    Quote Originally Posted by leyshoja View Post
    Thanks @micca, that is the only thing that has kept me going - that I know all of this will eventually be worth it. I lay awake last night from 1am onwards (jetlag or stress), had a little cry feeling sorry for myself, thought about a ham sandwich (no deli goods right if you might be UTD), didnt because i might be UTD, spent a lot of time thinking about what if its BFN and have realised that I know I can't stop. DP says we can't afford to do another DE stim cycle but I know I will regret it for the rest of my life if we just stop. Well, its still BFN this morning so I'm pretty sure this one is a done deal.
    We have the two frosties back in CT (groannnn I didnt want to fly that far again) but if they don't end up in a BFP I want to go for donor number 3. FFS I CANT believe that TWO donors have not given me a BFP yet. I feel so sorry for myself its pathetic. Why am I SO FRICKIN UNLUCKY. That was 'lucky' cycle number 13, I think I did 10 embies of my own, 5 from donor number 1, now these two perfect ones from donor number 2 and still nothing ?!?!? WTF ???? No, really, WTF !!
    Oh, f$cking hell @leyshoja !!! Did you get tested for immune issues? Sorry I can't remember. I know its of absolutely no comfort but on the egg donation australia website there are LOTS of recipients that have had to go through a few donor cycles, so its not just you.

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    Nope. No amount of squinting is making this FRER into a BFP @emski72, how soon do CFC allow you to do a FET after a BFN do you know? Also, when you say 4 days, can you roll up on the Monday am and leave Thur pm ? So 3 days of accom rather than 5 ? Yep, trying to cut costs here. And do you remember how many days before your CFC appointment you needed to do the ultrasound back here?
    God I'm cranky. My misery is turning to anger at the universe now, but I guess I'd rather be angry than depressed. Poor old DP is more disappointed than he has ever been. Maybe because he was more involved this time and came to all the appointments, or the fact that I went on and on about how perfect these embies were. I should have just kept my mouth shut in hindsight.

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    Oh @leyshoja Im so sorry, it's truly frucked. There's still tomorrow but I get that you've resigned to it being a done deal. Sending you love and support 😘 I hope it's just off to a slow start and tomorrow shows a positive xxx

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    hi @micca I remember you there was an IVF warriors thread I think too that this thread has kinda morphed into.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bongley View Post
    Oh, f$cking hell @leyshoja !!! Did you get tested for immune issues? Sorry I can't remember. I know its of absolutely no comfort but on the egg donation australia website there are LOTS of recipients that have had to go through a few donor cycles, so its not just you.
    No, never been tested for it. I guess the fact that I had two pregnancies go to 10 weeks was enough proof for the FS that I didnt have the issue. I will be so frucked off if something like that ends up being the issue. I will raise it with CFC if I end up doing an FET (or should I say when)

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    @leyshoja Oh Fruck no Luv, I'm so sorry!!!

    I don't want to believe it because I was so sure that you were going to get a BFP first go. I know not all women do, but I was so hopeful that you would Look Luv, regardless of the BFP's you've had in the past, I really feel now is the time to get tested for immune issues and anything that could be impeding implantation in your oven like adhesions, polyps, endo, blocked tubes etc if you haven't already.

    I'd also think about having an Endo Scratch done before transferring those frosties as well. I know @emski72 FS doesn't think it has any benefits for a FET but I say it can't hurt when your back's to the wall and you're running out of options to try

    You could also try doing a basic immune protocol for the FET as well just to cover your bases. There has to be something else going on surely?? I'm finding it hard to believe it's incompetent embryo's every time especially this time (though it still could be)

    Much love, hugs and healing to you Luv, it's so frucking unfair, I'm angry too!!!

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    Here's some interesting reading Girls about RIF (repeated implantation failure). @leyshoja you've prob have already seen it posted over on the other thread, but I thought some of the Lovelies here might be interested.

    It's a lengthy article but quite interesting:

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3510376/

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    @tuxcat @winsor Good Luck today for EPU fellow bedmates!!!

    all your follies contain lovely, mature eggies for the fertilising!!!

    Thinking of you both.....

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    @Bongley Good to hear Luv

    Although it is an early scan, I'm still that it'll show some very promising follicle growth on there for you Luv

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    @Chiefsgirl How's things tracking for you and your embies Luv??

    Have you had an update on their development and are you still all good for your transfer tomorrow?? Luv!!!


 

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