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    Default WWYD- Babys surname

    Quote Originally Posted by ChelleBH View Post
    Bit off topic but would ex consider giving DD your DPs surname as an 'addition' to his? I'm getting married & ex has agreed to DD having 2 surnames ie. First name Ex surname DF surname (which will so be mine). That way she has both 'family' names .
    Not sure. If we ever marry I suppose it's worth asking.

    Edit. Just thinking about it, I guess it's no different to me wanting to do that now, except that I would have DP's surname myself.
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    How's it all going @heplusme?

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    I would compromise- he can stay in the house with you and your child, if he agrees to the child having your surname.

    If not, hyphenate it and he live elsewhere.

    I believe he has as much right to have a say in this as you do, but if it is going to stress you out, give him the choice.

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    Thank you for thinking of me...

    Things are ok. At the moment he is on the couch. Its all very hard for me as i naturally want to be affectionate but were not. We are choosing a new first name together but i told him i wouldnt decide about the surname yet.

    Bubs is now 4 days overdue..i wish he would hurry up already! I know its stupid but i cant help but think that maybe it will change things..

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    And there we go..just got contacted by the womans partner to tell me they are still talking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heplusme View Post
    And there we go..just got contacted by the womans partner to tell me they are still talking.
    I'm sorry.

    Try and focus on bub, you'll be a mummy soon

    Hugs OP xoxo

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    Oh Hun! I'm so sorry! I think now is the time to kick his but to the curb. Kick him out and tell him he's not going to be at the birth.

    I know you had hoped to rekindle the relationship but he's shown time and time again he's not going to change.

    Now's the time to show him you won't let him walk all over you and make him leave.

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    I kicked him out. I cannot take it anymore so its all about me and my son now. He can try and take me to court, good luck to him! Im angry now and i will not stand for it anymore.

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    You deserve so much better

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    Quote Originally Posted by heplusme View Post
    I kicked him out. I cannot take it anymore so its all about me and my son now. He can try and take me to court, good luck to him! Im angry now and i will not stand for it anymore.
    I'm cheering for you right now. 💕

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