Before i start i have another thread which explains my situation in more detail.
FOB and i have split up. I am now 39 weeks pregnant, and apparently although we arnt 'romantic' right now he says he isnt single and is attached to our family. We are going to try to live together and see where the relationship naturally progresses to over time.
Now the dilemma, i always wanted the same last name as my children. When we were engaged i was happy to give our son his last name as we were marrying at the end of this year.
I also want to change the first name we agreed upon as its a reminder of everything ive been through and quite frankly i like the new name more.
He says that the surname should be hyphenated, which i dont want to do. The two names just wont go together and i dont forever want him to be writing two surnames. He cracked it last night saying that by naming him what i want i dont want him to have anything to do with his son.
Would/did you name your child the fathers name if not together?