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    Almost 22years for me living this way..some day a switch with go off in my head and I will take that step...someday

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    do you and your DH/OH/SO have separate foods?

    my DH buys food and then gets so cranky if anyone dares eat it... we are talking pies or icecreams..

    i look at it that its food and its for everyone... i dont believe in mine is mine if one of the boys eats something i wanted i jusy go oh ok, and buy more but DH gets so cranky and cracks it and im sick of hearing about it...

    also my mum had surgery on monday and i had to ask DH is i could have the cc to send her flowers... i felt like a child asking permission...

    the list of things to talk to the new counsellor is getting longer every day..

    ive started a diary as well and have jotted down when i get a kiss or a hug or even a touch and so far its day 3 and there are no enteries.

    i hate my marriage

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    Have you spoken to him about how you feel, and about what you need from him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CMF View Post
    Have you spoken to him about how you feel, and about what you need from him?

    yes and he says nothing

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    I read this and thought "is he having a secret life?" it sounds like he might be, I don't know what, but it sounds like he is just switched off to his life with you. Can you get back into the workforce? Having your own money will give you so much more freedom.

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    he does like to do his own thing and have his own things...

    im studying at the moment and hopefully will get a job once i graduate but at 45 im not so sure it will be easy.

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    If you have a joint account you can go into a branch with photo ID and get all the information you want from your account. You can probably even set up online access or get the user ID and password.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollywood View Post
    If you have a joint account you can go into a branch with photo ID and get all the information you want from your account. You can probably even set up online access or get the user ID and password.
    doing it tomorrow

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbangtheory View Post
    doing it tomorrow
    Good! And make sure you request a statement. His unwillingness to give you access seems fishy to me.

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    Use your ATM card to check your balance. There may be much more in there than you think??

    Your happiness is so much more important than what your parents think. I know it's really hard to leave a relationship, but just for a second take your parents out of the equation. What else is holding you back? Maybe that's something to talk over with the counsellor?

    Good luck, I really hope you find the strength to leave, your happiness really should be the most important thing and I hope you find it one day without him.


 

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