Sunnygirl - couldn't agree more re finding out Gender. I reserve the right to change my mind but my intention is NOT to find out Gender. I suspect it might be pretty hard though considering all the scans that will come. It is interesting what is important about choosing a donor etc ..... I didn't worry too much about blood types (it was towards the bottom of the nice-to-have list) but I was looking at both donor profiles over the weekend and realised that quite co-incidentally I am B+, my ED is O+ and my SD is B+ so I marched blood without trying !
Sagi - my med expenses offset has reduced dramatically over say 3 years, when I first started IVF I think I got $6k back (20% of the excess of $1k) but with the 2013 announcement it dramatically reduced as the rate of offset reduces as your income goes up (and the threshold increased to $2k) and has reduced each year. Hope you can get as much as possible back.