Hi lovely, brave ladies of BH.
Im not starting this thread to derail your previous thread 'if i had my time over, I would never have had children'
And I hope i don't offend anyone by starting this, but... I have to admit that reading along, I am quietly crapping myself for when we do decide to start a family.
I'm really interested to know, if you still chose to have children, What would have you done differently?
What positive things do your children bring you?
Although i completely understand where you are all coming from, I would love to hear some positives.
Again, i am sorry if this doesn't come across in the right way and if it offends everyone. I think each and everyone of you are doing an amazing job and at the end of your day if your children are loved, their tummies are full and are warm at night, you have done your job.