So, what would you do if yoy were in my situation - we bought a building which is almost completely renovated and we ll open a business which will be dh s full time job. I ll work there too casually but will keep my occupation as worked hard to be where I am (uni pkus extra study etc). So we own our house but have a loan on building plus all renos cost more than budgeted. If we sell our home we could be debt free.
In laws have huge two level house. Levels have separate entrances. Our would be lower level. Would have ti spend some money renivating but would end up with 4 bedroom unit. Backyard would be shared and wouldnt have garage. I like the idea of being debt free and mil loves loves our kids and would absolutely love to have them around more. Its only 5min drive away fromour home. Kids would be able ti spend more time outside I the garden as mil loves gardening and I dont really. Would be easy when I go back to work if I am oncall etc. What I dont like is they are huge hoarders while I am an absolute minimalist and hate keeping things I dont use. Also wouldnt have much space for parties and I love entertaining. And lastly discipline and kids, as they would be spoiled by ils and obviously I would be too embarrassed to yell at kids but that would make me a better mum? What do you guys think? Anyone been in this situation? My dh wont do it so its just playing on my mind. I think it could work really well and we could spend money on holidays etc..