It's so wrong isn't it, lolly007.
And then to accuse her of having PND in those very early days when she was anxious of being away from her baby as any mother would.
She did go on to have some mild PND afterwards but MIL was most likely a catalyst for that. If you're consistanyly being told you're handling everything the wrong way, you're going to start believing it.
Her boyfriend, well they're just volatile together.
I reallly wish she wasn't with him but for some reason she loves him.
I've cut ties with them both at one point because of some horrible things my sister said to me regarding a miscarriage I had. I just couldn't be dealing with their stuff on top of my own at the time. When they argue they bring the whole family in to it.
Cause friction and tension, then they make up and were all supposed to act like nothing's happened. No thanks.
I've since made up with her but I can't be bothered with him anymore.
Last edited by Phony; 11-07-2015 at 08:30.
sorry to hear that phony. definitely sounds as though you've made a tough but sound decision to minimize their involvement in your life. it's so hard with family isn't it, friends you can just phase out and expel from your life. it's so hard with crappy family issues.
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