XH & I seperated in jan due to DV (TBH I packed DD & I in the car while he was at work, and never looked back)
Fast forward 6 months and he has been having DD wednesday night (from 530pm until 8am thursday)
I have recently enrolled in TAFE and no longer want to do wednesday nights as it would mean we would have to meet half way at 7pm on a Wednesday & again at 630am on a Thursday.
I have suggested we change the weekly visit to a fri, sat, sun or mon (due to tafe I can not do a Tue, wed or thur)
XH has flipped his lid. This is not good enough.
When we started over night visits for DD I expressed that the agreement would change when I went back to tafe, and again next year when DD goes to school & I will be in full time work.
However he has plans every weekend (blah blah blah) and can not commit to a regular weekend night & monday is also a no go.
We have no court orders (yet) and no parenting plan. Just a verbal agreement.
Am I being unreasonable expecting him to change his night with DD? Due to an injury he knows I need to retrain. I've tried to keep him updated but only (last week) found out what the tafe schdule would be.
Ive told him that if he wants to go away with his new GF and skip his weekends, then I am fine with that.
Why is he being so difficult?