I'm so upset, I'm 39 weeks pregnant with my 2nd. There's so much stress in my life ATM and nothing I can do about it.
I have an 8 year old step son, he has behavioral issues, he doesn't like it when we try to get him to do homework etc and hates hearing no. He's usually pretty good with us, but when he's with bio mum (50/50) he threatens to kill himself and run away. Bio mum until recently wouldn't discipline him. She's told us in the past that he rules the house. She's started to want to place rules and boundaries and now he's rebelling. He used to go to the tutor but threatened to kill himself because the homework is too hard so he no longer goes.
Dh and I have spoken to psychologists, psych nurses and people from dhs and all agree that there's nothing wrong with him from what they see (when he's in our care) but agree he has issues when with his mother but believe it's acting out to get his own way.
Bio mum has been on dhs back about him seeing a psychologist, dh has agreed for them both to go without him to discuss the issues (dh believes dss is trying to manipulate bio mum, he tells us he has no intention of hurting himself but he gets mad at bio mum and wants to hurt her) if the psychologist then wants to see him dh has agreed to let him go.
Bio mum keeps ringing up and fighting with dh about it, it's causing so much stress, I'm due to have my baby any day now and she just won't leave us alone. I feel like I have no one to talk to because she's been doing the same thing for years and everyone's sick of hearing about her crap. If something doesn't go her way she threatens to take us to court.
I feel like my only options for this to end are 1) leaving dh or 2) dying (I'm not suicidal, just think about death and how it would be good for the crap to be over)
I have no idea what to do. Why won't she just let us have these couple of weeks where she's not calling and causing trouble all the time