So hubby told his sister that we are doing ivf later this year and that's the reason we are not coming on her two week wedding cruise. He explained we want to save the money and annual leave (in my case - hubby runs his own company) for ivf and the timing won't work for us.
Oh I don't know why kitty would want to go through this as she already has step children in their teens which is awkward. I would never do ivf. It's not natural. She should just relax and it will eventually happen.
See this is why I didn't want hubby to tell but rather make up a bs story.
She is unbelievable.
My response: so you tell me that you would never do ivf even if that was the only option?
Her: no never because I know it would eventually happen when it's meant to happen and maybe it's not meant to happen for some people.
Me: sure. Easy for you to say in retrospective as you have 6 kids already and yeah thanks maybe I am not meant to be a mother.