So my mum's diagnosis is not imminently fatal (like a melanoma with metastasis to the bones would have been) but it's still incurable and she's been classified palliative. It's breast cancer with metastasis to multiple bone sites including her skull and there's a small spot on the lungs too. Mastectomy soon and they'll start radiation right away. Looks pretty bad to me. They told her it's an estrogen fueled breast cancer which may have been caused by her 25 years on the pill and said tell your daughter to stay off the pill. No issues there as I stopped it 7 years ago now but I was on it for 20 years prior to that. Joy!! Actually if I could go back to my younger self now, I would def tell me to not go on the pill at all.
Dad back Friday, thanks be to god.