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    @ScubaGal He's perfection!! How are you finding motherhood a month in?
    Yep, Blondie the countdown has definitely began. I just got very snappy & rude with my FS office when chasing yet another unsent script (only to find out from my chemist 2 mins later that they received it late yest - opps!!) so I know PMT has arrived with vengeance..which of course is great in this instance.
    Quitting while you're ahead sounds like a brilliant plan Blondie! If IVF doesn't work out for me I'll be a 'one and done' Mum and life will be great with just my little man & I. Now that he's turned 3 it's so easy to go on little adventures/holidays together & be spontaneous again, plus it's less of a financial stress with just the one, esp on my own. And being 40 I'm struggling with enough energy for one poppet let alone two! Yet here I am ready to jump on this IVF roller-coaster to create a sibling for him, go figure!!

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    You're damn right @Kelly70. Men and boundaries, hey?! He's being just a tad cheeky there. I'm so glad you've stuck to your principles. Plus he'll need to learn strong boundaries once you're UTD!! It sounds like keeping him sweet is going to require top notch diplomatic skills. He must be sweating on getting your booty call (possibly from his perspective)/insemination (possibly from your perspective) text.

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    @Kelly70 Tell him to keep it in his pants until you're good and ready Luv!!

    This isn't some "Friends with Benefits" deal you've got going on, so he's got to play by the rules

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    Yes I've made that very clear a few times Blonde but he is pretty oversexed I must say.. He just doesn't get why you wouldn't have fun whilst you can, as per this msg I just got from him:

    We may as well enjoy the process as much as possible. It won't be long till you're preggo.

    His lack of understanding/connection and the oversexed side of him is one of the reasons we are not together. It's just unsexy!!!

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    Just curiously @Kelly70, how did he react when your last cycle didn't result in a BFP?

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    @Tahli we've only txted since my last cycle, I've not actually seen him, but there wasn't much reaction from what I could tell. I was too busy teeing him up for the next cycle!!

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    Apologies if this is rehashing old ideas @Kelly70 but is freezing some of his sperm an option?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelly70 View Post
    Yes I've made that very clear a few times Blonde but he is pretty oversexed I must say.. He just doesn't get why you wouldn't have fun whilst you can, as per this msg I just got from him:

    We may as well enjoy the process as much as possible. It won't be long till you're preggo.

    His lack of understanding/connection and the oversexed side of him is one of the reasons we are not together. It's just unsexy!!!
    And here I was jealous that you were getting some action! 😜

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    @Kelly70 But that's the whole point, it's pretty much not fun for you!!! It's a means to an end as cold as that sounds.

    Look, most men would see it like he does:"free sex" despite his earlier statement, but he's just going have to keep it zipped for now and that's that!!

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    It's not fun for me at all Blonde - I'm pretty much just sucking it up so to speak!! What's even less fun, is 1000s of dollars and the ivf process - this acupuncture/shagging combo is far more palatable on every level.

    He's a good guy though, I'd love it to happen this way as the kid would know their dad.

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