2nd day same thing but he gave in and put undies on, got ipad for approx 30 mins or until he got distracted. Wanted a nappy back on so ipad went on top of the fridge and he got a nappy on. He may have asked for it back but same thing, undies on and he can use it 30 mins.
Eventually he realized he didn't want nappies on. He did have a couple of accidents every now and then but we didn't make a fuss. And i read somewhere that you shouldn't remind over 3s to use the toilet because they need to learn to pay attention to their own body. So once he had undies on we just kept going with our day. If he wet himself then so be it but i could literally count on one hand how many times that happened.
And this is a bit weird but we also invented the toilet fairy. After he used the toilet, a special toilet fairy would leave him some coins or a lolly somewhere in the house for him to find. So he had a game to play after using the loo. Toilet fairy game only lasted a few weeks and then we told ds she moved on to help another little boy learn to use the toilet and we went to the toy shop and he got to spend the coins on a new toy to remember the toilet fairy by.
That sounds really strange now that i think about it! Lol and i lot of effort!
My dd isn't even 2 yet and she toilet trained herself pretty much, no rewards, no toilet fairy, nothing. .