I am sorry for all the questions and thank you for all your patience and help so far you are all amazing. Thank you.
My husband has two children from his previous marriage one of which is with us 90% of the time, he is 19 and opposed to the idea that there will ever be more children. He is a pretty self centered young men and made several comments in the past like "I better hope you never bring a baby in this house and if you do it better be not near me as babies smell" or similar. He is very intelligent but just lacks any sort of social skills. The other kid is 15 and the total opposite. The younger child is with us 30-40% of the time.
Now my husband's older child will know the drugs for ivf as he is a pharmacy student which really worries me.
How can we hide the ivf process from him? Any ideas? Have you done this?