Enough guys... Please.
Hi OP, hope you are feeling a little better today. Try not to let the outcome of the thread get you down. Sometimes people do go a bit OTT getting their point across.
Just recently I pointed out to a member that someone else was only venting and I coped a very nasty reply back which i felt was unwarranted given that my post was not in anyway attacking or nasty, I was simply supporting another member. I could have replied back and kept the tit for tat going but decided to step away and just leave it be. I dont see the point in getting upset by comments from someone I dont know, nor do I see the point in upsetting them further.
I hope you stick around.
FWIW I don't think anyone was deliberately nasty to you in that thread. I know I wasn't trying to be, but your subsequent posts read like you were not willing to accept opinions that differed to yours, and some of your posts came across as though you were judging the other mother. I'm not saying this to make you feel bad, but because there seems to be several people who will be sad yo see you go and I used the word judgy in that thread, but I definitely wasn't attacking you. I honestly don't believe anyone was so don't leave the friends you've made here on account of that thread
However, I do understand where you're coming from in general. I rarely post because a once popular member had an issue with me and would nit pick at absolute everything I said and it got old real fast. I suspect she had/has her own issues in real life but I didn't really enjoy being her emotional punching bag and it took the fun of bh away...so if you've experienced similar I get it, but if you want to leave over that one thread, don't.
Last edited by Full House; 15-06-2015 at 12:36.
I'm sorry you are leaving. But I do understand.
I refrain from starting threads and posting much too. It's not worth it..
FWIW I read the thread and I was shocked at how you were treated..
All the best
hi killerheels. I hope you stay around. I have enjoyed your posts and I know you were motivated by concern for the baby and not expecting the thread to turn around like it did. Bubhub land is a bit like a melting pot, everyone tosses in an opinion or two and something comes out. sometimes it is a good outcome, sometimes not so good. please don't take the comments personally, it is so very hard to get the right words with the right meaning across a computer screen. hugs, marie.
I completely get where you are coming from as I have had nastiness directed at me before. I decided to stay as I felt it was their problem, not mine.
I'll be sorry to see you go xx
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