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    @Skylar I just wanted to say, if you are reading this, that I am so pleased you have come out of the other end of this terrible process a happy person. There are definitely some advantages to not having children, you have unlimited freedom now to live a fulfilling life. Thank you for also showing the other ladies that you can survive this. Hugs

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    Mrsmac I am so sorry for you are going through. I hope you receive your final results today.

    Blonde you are a gem

    Corbes and lucky me good luck with your egg pick ups today and tomorrow. Fingers crossed for a few good quality eggs.

    Winsor I hope you feel better soon.

    Bongley I'm glad things are going well with the donor process. Have you heard anything back on the house "with great transport links"?

    Hello to everyone else

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    Final results are in, nothing new...Trisomy 21 confirmed, no escaping...no special rules of the universe for me...in fact when is the universe going to give me a break??

    I thought I was traumatised when I found out I was pregnant this time about what would go wrong, if I am ever pregnant again I wonder what it will be like. I was so anxious even when everything was going ok I could not tell if I had MS or anxity. I can tell you something odd...since I got the results of the initial NIPS test, I actually started to relax and enjoy actually being pregnant knowing I had a little buddy...not in the way it sounds, in a way that I suddenly felt like....I would not miscarry, nothing would go wrong in that respect....nothing I ate or did worried me....that was always my biggest fear...so strange...

    I have also had a doppler since I was 9 +1 and first heard him at 9+4, when I first got BT results back I put it all away and swore I would not listen ever again, but I have been I could not help it. I have had next to no MS for a week or more, no symptoms. Its was like part of the dream how could a baby with something wrong have such a strong normal beating heart surely he must be fine?. I still was in denial that I was carrying a baby unless I listend to the doppler...it was not until I was faced with all of this that I finally accepted I am pregnant...and its sad

    See you on the other side girls
    Thanks for your support
    Goodbye to my little passenger, 13 + 3 we made, I was just about to start getting my dream belly
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    I am nervous about tomorrow for obvious reasons butt because...when it comes to baby stuff...**** does happen to me

    I have my stepmother telling me she has had 2 an even one "wierd" one while she was awake (piece of cake kind of thing)...I did not ask the circumstances, knowing her it was something to do with practicalities...anyway she insinuated its all routine (which it is but she always belittles my feelings)...as I said back to her for being so flippant...SO IS HAVING A BABY ROUTINE SO THEY SAY...

    I remember when I had my first ectopic and had 16 staples in my stomach and how she said...oh its just like a ceaser...I have had one of them too..and I was like...yeh...did you hae a baby to take home? Last time I had somone say the same thing to me that was removing my staples..and I had 27 staples...and still no baby...and also...no tubes left...NOTHING LIKE IT
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    Mrsmac123, people are idiots and in these types of situations sometimes moreso. My heart breaks for you love. Take all the support offered to you from professionals, hold your DH close and you will get through this. You're one strong lady, but its OK to be feeling so fragile and scared now any normal person would be, surround yourself with loving and supportive people. Thinking of you. xx

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    @mrsmac123 I second what emski said, people say all kinds of stupid things, its hard to take but mostly they are trying to say something and don't really know what to say. You have every right to be angry, sad, furious, devastated and scared, so just go with it. You've been through so much, take care of yourself and be close to DH and you will get through this too. Im just devastated for you, I think we all are, its beyond unfair and Im thinking of you and sending you lots of love and support through this terrible time. xxx

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    @mrsmac123 Yes Luv, it is really bloody sad I can understand why you went into denial about it all. Sometimes it's the only way we can cope with emotional trauma.

    I can understand why you felt the way you did after the NIPS result. In one sense, you probably felt relief that a MC was unlikely after what you'd been through and but for the T21, all was as it should be. Life can deal such cruel cards at times

    You don't have to feel bad about listening to the heartbeat. Just because you're not continuing the pregnancy doesn't mean that you don't love your "little passenger" and it is ok to love him and want to do things like listen to the heartbeat so that you can remember him and honour his existence ok??

    I've been thinking of you Luv..thinking of you all and I'm not ashamed to admit I've been shedding tears most particularly today, and know there will be more tomorrow I know I don't know you IRL, but I'm hurting for you all

    Tomorrow I will be sending a prayer to the Universe for you and your "little passenger" and lots of hugs, love and healing your wayxoxo

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    @mrsmac123 The woman is an insensitive frucking idiot who has no idea ok??

    Take no notice of her. Remarks like that come from women who never cared in the first place (and there are some that don't). Clinically, it might be "routine", but emotionally, mentally, spiritually...it's devastating for you Luv

    A concept that's foreign to the likes of her and her type. Tell her to keep her unhelpful opinions to herself. Her kind of "help" is the kind you don't ever need!!

    P.S...Of course you're nervous after all you've been through, but they know your history and will take extra special care of youxoxo
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    Luckyme thank you for your kind words. I am still reading along with the thread wishing you all luck but can't get too involved in the daily ins and outs of injections, follicle counts etc as I just feel like I've been there and moved on if you know what I mean.

    So GOOD LUCK to all of you cycling and I want to see some BFP's ok!

    mrsmac I get shivers and prickly skin just thinking about you and what you are going through. I am so sad for you. Your stepmother is not showing you any empathy and is minimising your experience by saying she's been through just about every procedure blah blah. Sounds like a cow. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and hope you come out the other side as best as you can.

    Ladies I have my surgery next Saturday July 11th. It's at a really nice private hospital on the North Shore of Sydney where the rich and famous (and the normal ppl) have their babies. I will kill them if they put me in one of the maternity wards.

    It's funny, I've moved on in my head much more than what I thought I would. I really do not want to do any more ivf after this surgery. Perhaps I'll re-think and do 'one more' somewhere down the track. But for now I think I'll go and join one of the 'end of ivf' threads where people are coming to terms with the end of their journey. I'm not bailing out of here altogether and will be popping in. Thank you all for the endless support you have offered me. You can catch me on the masterchef thread bi*c*ing away most nights!!!
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    Skyler, all the best to you and DH, I'll see you on the MC thread - gotta keep that post ount up. All the best for your procedure xxx

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