Sunny - disappointing to have to freeze all in the end but worth it. They went ahead with mine in January and the whole 9 weeks before the miscarriage I was miserable with pain as my ovaries were 10x their normal size. No fun in that! My first cycle I was in icu because of it so that one was cancelled (I didn't mention that earlier I don't think, didn't want to scare you!). Good news was, my fet 3 months later resulted in my daughter.
Spec - I'll try not to poas til Saturday. Chances are slim though. As I didn't trigger, that's no issue. I tend to do it obsessively, like every day once I start but I really don't want to do that to myself this time. Last cycle in jan was such an ordeal anyway as it turned out that my positive became quite a long drawn out torture that even a bfp isn't going to make my heart sing this time around. I'll hold my breath til at least 12weeks.