Thank you from the bottom of my heart.I'm probably wasting my breath because the ones I'm directing this too probably have me on ignore but you are entitled to your opinion. Of course you are, you can tell it to us straight, tell it like it is, be proud of not holding back but just know that this forum is full of real, vulnerable people.
You only have to read the journals on here to see the amount of pain people are in and how fragile they are and they have found bubhub to be a safe place to share this part of themselves.
Words matter. They can lift someone up and they can kick them when they're down. It's not about condoning dangerous behaviour or turning a blind eye but it's about realising your power.
You might think you're just commenting on a specific article or that you're entitled to be angry and to judge and I guess you are but this is a community and why anyone wants to continually hurt people in their community after they've been told "Hey, you're hurting her, please stop", well I don't get it.
I know people can choose to leave if they can't hack it or they need to take ownership of their feelings (no one can make you feel inferior without your consent and all that jazz) but sometimes people don't have anywhere else to go and sometimes they are judging themselves more harshly than anyone else could.
Anyway that's my ramble of the day and I've gone back and toward about whether to press send but meh too late now...