It crazy how much we have been through as a couple and we are so strong but at some point you have to say maybe it's just not meant to be and I am on that cross roads now. I don't want to loose my husband for something I have never had. Like you say everyone has differing opinions and it's so hard.
I hope you get your dream. If anyone is deserving of children it's people who would do anything to have then. Keep me posted x