Undercover hubber here, for obvious reason I would like to keep this away from my account.
Anyway, I have periodically received msgs from my ex over the years. I always gave short concise answers and sometimes not at all to his contact. He was never that into me, and so I moved on plus he was the one who ended it. I have been with DH happily for over 10 years now.
I received a Facebook msg the other week asking if I would like to have dinner with him, I declined. TBH I didn't give it a second thought.
Then, I find out that the ex JUST got married. I'm very happy that he is married, but why the hell would you msg a person you knew for 9 months ten years ago when you were getting married? In what universe is that ok? To show off his life (I'm a SAHM with X2 kids), or does he think that because I actually gave a crap about the relationship back then that he owes me a dinner conversation about it?
This really has me bum fuzzled, and in terms of disclosure I have been honest with DH, but I can't stop being annoyed about the whole thing.