Sookie Stackedhouse (30-08-2015)
Hi everyone so sorry I haven't been on in so long! I'm safe and will give a detailed update tonight once the kids are asleep and I can type more easily. Sorry to have worried some of you 😘
Just glad you're ok, thanks for checking in :-)
So it's been almost 4 months since I left a lot has happened in that time. I met and got engaged to an absolutely amazing guy he is so sweet and calm. My ex dp has physically abused me since I left him quite a few times actually so I got an avo on him that doesn't allow him to abuse me but he can still contact me for the children. He has them on the weekends and does ok so far. I haven't felt a need to go back to him leaving was much easier than I thought it would be but I think that's because I've matured so much since I met him back when I was 19. He is still trying to play mind games but I generally just ignore that. He does try to use the children against me saying he won't take them that weekend but I just say fine I'm happy to keep them and take them out to make it up to them. He says he can't go a day with out seeing or talking to me and that he is still so in love with me and wants me back to which I tell him I wouldn't come back because I don't love him and he hasn't changed at all he keeps apologising for all the stuff he has put me through and is still putting me through but apologies go unaccepted because he just does it again a few days later. Unfortunately he only lives 8 doors down from me but will hopefully be moving if my dp gets work in another town not too far away.
oh hun I am so glad you sound so happy.
wishing you all the very best in your new relationship, and I hope you continue to stand tall against this abusive man
Thanks darl I will 😊
im glad you are away from him, but only 8 doors away is not far enough. take care of yourself and your children, and I wish you happiness and peace. marie.
Thrilled you are okay xx
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