You poor thing. No wonder you are feeling upset and anxious. Do you have a good GP? Are you still seeing the dr that did the surgeries? Could it be worth talking to them about your cycle and concerns about scarring/infection? They may be able to track your hormones or order some tests which could provide some reassurance that everything is returning to normal, albeit slowly. They should respect the fact that you are understandably anxious after what you have been through and do what they can to help you through this. If they are flippant about your concerns, maybe you need a better doctor to guide you through this?