After a family friend miscarried what would have been her 4th child, mum said to me " perhaps the universe is sending her a message that she is done".
Since it wasn't my loss and I wasn't in the throes of grief, I had the ability to 100% call her on the inappropriateness of her comment. I asked how she could say that because according to her theory then I should not have kept trying for DS since the 'universe' had told me (twice) that we were apparently done!
It definitely shocked her, but she seriously had no clue that her comment about someone else was personally insulting to me and what I had gone through. I can only hope this stopped her from saying "everything happens for a reason" when she saw the friend next, as she does like to pull that one out quite regularly.
Like I said, beautiful person, all full of good intentions, but seriously no clue sometimes!