There will be just over 5 years between 1 & 2 and Im happy with that. I've not yearned for another until just before we started trying. I feel like that I've given DS a good chunk of my time/energy/one on one love and he'll be off to school when this one is here.
I've babysat my niece and with having the two of them...... I concluded I wasn't a baby + toddler mum.