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    Default Feeling disheartened

    I'm new to this.. Posting what I am going through, though I have been reading around trying to see if anyone else has had similar experiences. Basically in a nutshell I'm currently experiencing my second chemical pregnancy and I'm gutted. I thought I was doing everything right, taking the multivitamins, exercising and eating healthy, trying to stay calm. Long story short I did 2 pregnancy tests on Monday and both came back positive, I already had a doctor appointment for Monday afternoon so the doctor confirmed it then, as the blood test came back positive too. On Wednesday I had a small amount of spotting and rang doctor who said I may be miscarrying, however I did 2 more tests and both were positive. This morning I did another and it was negative. I also had blood taken but I'm pretty sure it will come back negative too. I'm scared that I'll never be able to carry a baby to term. My partner already has 2 children from a previous marriage and his reaction when I told him this morning was not to be sad. How can I not be sad? I love his kids but I really want one of my own. I know there is nothing anyone can do for me now, I guess I just wanted to get this off my chest.

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    Hey Keffle,

    I'm sorry this is happening to you. It's always so heart breaking.

    I have no words of advice. I hope you get your sticky baby very soon.

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    Big Hugs to you .. Miacarriages regardless of at what stage they happen are awful.

    If you BT confirms your suspicion and this is another chemical ask to get a referral to a fertility specialist.

    There are a lot of things they can do to help find a solution. Various testing will likely be done on you and your DH.
    (Don't assume that just because he has two children already that there isn't any underlying problems there)

    It may be as simple as making sure your hormone levels are right which is easily fixed with some medication.

    In the meantime be kind to yourself.

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    Thanks for your kind words, I really appreciate it. I've ended up taking today off work now I'm just sitting around waiting to see if I'll start to bleed soon.. Fingers crossed next time is more successful. I will make an appointment to see my doctor next week and discuss what I can do for the future.

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    Hi keffle, if you would like to email I am here to chat. My partner also has children from a previous relationship and I feel as though because of this my struggles with getting pregnant aren't as hurtful for him. I would love to have someone to confide in and tell my story to as I feel you would be able to relate.


 

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