DH and I are going to find out the gender of our next bubs.
My mum and dad are desperate not to know and have asked to keep it a surprise for them.
This will probably be their last grandchild (both my brother and I don't want any more).
However, DH and I would really really like to let dd (2) know and get her excited about getting a brother or sister. But then she will let my parents know....she talks about the baby all the time already lol!
So would you keep it a secret from dd too? I don't want to ruin it for my parents but we really want dd to know. DH says stuff my parents but that's easy for him to say.
Eta: I accidentally ruined it the first time around for them too