So DH & I were discussing about giving homeless people money & wether it's the right thing to etc. Out of the blue he said, there's something I did, but I'm not sure if I should tell you. You might get upset. He said he gave some charity to someone overseas. I said ok, how much? He gave them 10,000pounds which converted into our money is roughly $2000. I worked out that it was for his cousin. So his mum knew about it & I'm not sure who else. Because he had to transfer the money through her account. I got upset, not for the money but the fact he didn't tell me. He said he couldn't because my parents were over at the time & he shouldn't tell me anyway because it was a charitable donation & it was from his savings. Then he got angry at me because I said I felt his family & him keep secrets from me especially his mum.
Do I have a right to be upset?
And sorry if doesn't make sense or has bad grammar, I'm writing this thread at 3:27am!