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    Default Medical Termination

    Hi out there.
    I am after any advice that I can get.
    I am a gestational surrogate currently 12w4days, & we were informed yesterday that the foetus has a mortal condition of severe megacystis. The babies bladder is 30mm×32mm×32mm. This condition is not compatible with life so we have opted to stop the pain that the baby may be in and put him or her to rest.
    I have never had uterine surgery so I can only imagine.
    Thanks for any help.
    I am at a loss for words, & if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all.

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    I don't have any advice but couldn't read and run. Big hugs to you op. I'm sure this isn't easy for you or the intended parents. Be kind to yourself during this time. Xo

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    I'm so, so sorry. Xxx.
    No advice, but couldn't read and run.

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    Oh I'm so sorry for you and the IPs

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    I'm so sorry to hear your news


    I have no advice but wanted to send you the biggest hugs I can



    I could not read and run hugs xx

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    I'm so sorry to read this. I have quietly followed your journey and I just want to say how sorry I am for the loss .

    Please take it easy and all my love to you and the IPs

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    I have no words or advice- I just couldn't read and run- Just so sorry for you and the IPs **hugs**

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    so sorry to hear that big hugs xoxox

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    I am so sorry for the pain you, and your IP's must be experiencing right now. RIP little one 😇

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    Hugs from me too. What a difficult decision to have to make.


 

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