The first time the Comment about uni guys and playing the field, he started off saying that I was young and attractive. it was then followed up with a bit of a sex ed talk ie use protection. I then said that it wasn't something I'd do anyways. The next time it got brought up he asked if there were any attractive young uni guys and something about if I was interested in any of them, to which I said no, and that I had been dating a man, but that I wasn't anymore. He then asked how recent it was (as it was partly due to the reason I was seeing him, as I'm having some issues with my lady parts and sex hurting) during the conversation we talked about why it ended, (he asked why) which I said was cause there was probably too much of an age gap. He then asked about how much of an age gap, twice as i didn't give an answer. Then we started talking about my medical issues, and that he might need to refer me on to another dr. Then at the end of that appointment, is when he was saying stuff like you look really good and fit and Are you sure you are ok (as in coping with separating with dh, kids, work, uni etc). And how impressed he was with the changes I've made to my life, and that it's going to be interesting to see how it all goes in the future. I don't think I've misinterpreted these comments. Not after its happened a few times.
As far as my separation with my husband goes, it's been ok. It was me that decided this is what I want, it just took me a long time to work it out. He cheated, he was in the wrong. It made him realise he wanted me and didn't want a divorce, for me it had the opposite effect. The kids are doing great, the house hold is so much calmer with out him here and us arguing all the time. This is the happiest I've been in years. I feel like my old self again, well almost. Don't get me wrong, life is more stressful at times being a single parent, but I'm now a stronger more confident person too.