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    Default Attracted to my Doctor

    I don't want to get your hopes up or anything at all, but please don't think that this was all in your head necessarily. Not if his behaviour is as you've described.

    He'd be an idiot to send any other kind of response in writing, wouldn't he? I wouldn't fall off my chair if there are other chapters to this story.

    Either way you've done the right thing. And I'm with @Wise Enough :-)

    Take care.

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    I guess you are correct Harvs. Maybe he doesn't want anything that could be incriminating.

    I guess I just expected him to say something like lets talk about it or something. Not just completely shut it down. But what you said makes total sense.

    And I was pretty certain that he had been flirting with me. Oh well guess we will see what the future holds.

    Thanks for all the advice ladies! X

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    I think this is a best possible outcome to be honest.

    He keeps his job.

    You get a new doctor you feel comfortable with.

    No messy dating hassles - you can focus on yourself, your 10 month old and other 3 kids for now. Imagine how freakin messy your (and your kids) lives would have become if your doctor had taken the bite at the cherry.

    Phew.

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    Man... Where can I get myself a doctor who gives out his mobile To txt whenever, would save me self diagnosing via Google😋

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    Quote Originally Posted by FallenAngel14 View Post
    So for those who are interested, I asked my dr if he could refer me to someone else, as I think I have developed feelings for you and that changing Drs would be best. His reply was "no problem. all the best"
    I hope you are okay, I know that this wasn't the reply you were hoping for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia111 View Post
    I hope you are okay, I know that this wasn't the reply you were hoping for.
    Yeah I am ok Feeling pretty embarrassed more than anything. His response was so short as well. I would feel better if he had at least said he wasn't interested or something!

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    I agree with @harvs I doubt you were imagining it. I think he is keen but also realises he's breached ethics by what he's been doing. It's like when I keep eating chocolate and I don't gain weight for a few weeks and I think I'm getting away with it. Then one day the scales call me on it and it's a huge wake up call. I think he was dabbling with the flirting then when you called him on it he realised he can't do that, it's his job, his livelihood, and his home on the line.

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    He probably was flirting and he was probably happy to keep it that way. People flirting doesn't necessarily mean they want it to progress further. I hope you find a new dr that you are comfortable with.

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    I agree with the above. It's less likely you were imagining it. I think he's just embarrassed you called him on flirting with a patient.

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    I agree with the others. I don't think you were imagining him flirting. It's likely though that he never had any interest in a relationship. Some people are just very flirty. Not professional but hey.


 

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