Well my BT is tomorrow now (which is what it should have been as per Dr Le Roux's advice) as I found a pathology that's open on a Saturday - so I'll have my results Monday - still BFN on the FRER though so I'm calling it.
My plans are well and truly in motion for a return trip in Oct - with hubby and baby in tow so at the very least it will be a good family holiday.
my original donor will agree to donate again. I'm hoping I'll hear back soon if she is available. If not I will start from scratch.